dragontamer
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« on: June 20, 2009, 12:14:26 pm » |
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My work mate is going through this with her father.
Her mother is stressed and upset but the behaviour, and knowing it is the dementia causing it doesn't lessen the frustration, nor the guilt (she gets tired and then feels guilty for not coping).
He has access to a day care facility now to give her time to do the things she would normally have done, but cannot now do with him in tow......hairdressers, doctors, coffee with her friends.
Time out for both is critical. There is support out there, and if his/her GP is on the ball they should be able to access all of it. It won't change the outcome, and she is going to have stages of grief and anger. Just be there for her and have a hug and a cuppa ready for when she needs it. Check she is getting access to all the facilities and support she is entitled to. Let her vent.
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